There is something a lot of marriages could benefit from. What is it? Realizing that romance needs to come from both people, far too many women think it's up to the man to be romantic towards them, but then they don't do anything to return the favour. A common justification for this is that men don't go for all of that romantic stuff. And while that may be true in some cases, there isn't anything wrong with romancing the man in your life to show him that you care. With that in mind, here is how to be romantic with your husband.
Kiss him. While there's nothing wrong with it, we're not talking about a quick peck here. Instead give him a passionate kiss that conveys how you feel about him. Give him a nice kiss like this before the two of you leave for work in the morning. Doing it when he least expects it is also a nice touch. This kiss isn't meant to lead to anything else, though it may make it hard for him to think of anything else but you for a while.
Buy lingerie. Let's face it; men can get aroused by visual stimuli. Buying new lingerie is one way to give him something that will be pleasing to his eye; something as simple as lingerie can heat things up nicely, and is an amorous way to show that you're thinking of him. It also has the benefit of being something you can use again and again assuming he doesn’t get too carried away.
Cook for him. Who doesn't like to be pampered and cared for? Cooking a nice meal for him is a great way to show you care, and gives you the two of you the chance to spend some quality time together. If you like, you could always wear that new lingerie underneath your regular clothes, and give him a real surprise after dinner.
Tickets please! If your husband has a favourite sports team or musician, then getting him tickets to see them the next time they're in the area will be sure to make him happy. That's one part of being romantic a lot of people forget. They think it's only about getting physical, but it's really about making your partner happy.
Give him a massage, if he works for a living, or has any kind of stress in his life (who doesn't?), then a nice long massage will make him feel like a new man. Some soft music and candlelight will also help set the mood and make him more relaxed. Give the massage without any expectations of getting something in return; just do it because you love him.
These are only a few ideas of how to be romantic with your husband. Some people have said men have one-track minds, and that all they think about is making love. That's not true, they also think about food, sport, cars, gaming and other hedonistic past times! Okay, obviously I'm kidding. Be creative and think of romantic things to do for your husband that will be meaningful and appropriate.
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