Cheated Wife Move On With Your Life!

If you have become a cheated wife, I am sure you are wondering what you should do now to try to get over your ex. You are more than likely feeling hurt, anger, and resentment over the situation, and you need someone to talk to or someone to tell you what to do. 

First off, that's the wrong approach, you do not need someone to tell you what to do but you do need someone to listen. There's nothing wrong with hurting when someone you love is no longer in your life. I'm not saying you should break down and sob in front of your friends, but unless your friends are complete witches they should be able to support you while you're going through this tough time.

Sometimes, in any given situation, it's just as important to know what not to do as it is to know what to do.  For example, do not hook up with other fella’s. I know, this could help your wounded pride heal and it may take away some of the hurt for a little while, but what about that other fella? Does he really deserve to be treated like a stand in for your ex? What has he ever done to you?  No, it's best to just resist the urge to sleep with other fella’s at least for a little while until you can do it for the right reasons and not just to build up your own ego, or ease your hurt, or get back at your ex.

Another thing you need to avoid is the dumb move of going out and getting wasted. Ask yourself what have you really accomplished? Probably just the biggest hangover you have ever had, that's what. If you want to go out with your friends and have some fun to keep your mind off of things, be my guest. But if you want to drink yourself into a stupor then avoid doing it in public, stay home where you won't make a fool of yourself and where you can't hurt anyone.

Instead of wallowing in self pity when you're a cheated wife, try doing something positive that won't leave you feeling even worse. How about joining a gym and getting in shape?  Why not take a class or go back to school?  Go cry on your mommy's shoulder.

It doesn't matter what it is you do, as long as the things you choose are healthy and will eventually move you forward in your life. They can help you take your mind off your ex, and your anger, and concentrate on something that is worthwhile.

Avoiding the destructive behaviours after a breakup and improving the woman you are will enable you to move forward in a positive way and will greatly increase the odds that your next relationship will work out better than your last one did. So if you're a cheated wife take stock of the woman you are and make improvements while you are healing your broken heart.

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How to Get Your Ex Husband Back Fast

Before you learn how to get your ex husband back, it's important that you stop yourself for a minute and ask yourself why you want him back. I know, you'll say it's because you still love him, and you might, but are you sure that really is the main reason? Look, it is really easy to feel your life has been shaken to its foundation after a breakup and we find ourselves scrambling to get back to anything that feels normal. This could be a big reason that you want him back but it's not a good one.

You really need to not only be completely honest about the reasons you want him back, you also need to be totally honest when it comes time to evaluate if the relationship was even healthy enough to continue with. So the question should be not about how to get him back but whether or not you should get back with him at all.

You should not get back with him if there was any type of abuse at all; physical, sexual, verbal, or emotional. You absolutely should not get back with him even if he promises he will change. He won't! 

If he has been in therapy for some time and has shown a commitment to changing then maybe you could consider reconciling with him but keep in mind that the two of you fell into a certain dynamic when you were together and it's very likely that you will fall back into that same dynamic if you get together again. Therapy or no therapy?

If, after careful consideration, you both decide that the relationship is worth another chance, here are some things that will show you how to get your ex husband back:

1. First of all, try to contact him to see if he is even receptive to the idea. Stay casual; do not let him know right away that you want to get back together with him. Keep the conversation easy and light and just suggest meeting as friends.  If he says no, then you have your answer. If he doesn't even want to meet for coffee as friends, it's unlikely that he will want to get back together as a couple with you.

If he says yes, keep everything very casual, just talk, have fun, most of all be yourself and do not try too hard. You will only succeed in turning him away. Everything will probably progress from there if he is interested in getting back together with you too.

2. If he shows no interest of reconciling with you, walk away with your head held high.  Be proud of yourself that you tried. Nothing ventured... nothing gained, it is important though, to know when to call it a day.  Do not get angry or threaten him in any way. Just wish him well and say goodbye. At least that way you won't feel like a fool every time you remember the meeting.

These are simple things you can do to find out if he is receptive to reconciliation and if not you can move on knowing that you tried.  Please take the time, first, to make sure that you really know how to get your ex husband back and why; because not all relationships should be saved.

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How To Win Love Back For Good

My marriage has been a little rocky lately and I decided to do some research on how to win love back. The first thing I learned was we need to learn how to communicate better. How hard could this be really, we used to talk about everything all the time. I am going to follow the tips and steps I learned and start as soon as we both get home tonight. We can cook dinner, have some wine and start talking while we eat.

I learned that I have to be honest with myself and that no matter how much I want my marriage to work I may not be able to save it. My husband needs to want to save it, too, and be willing to work on everything that needs work. I can't do it all by myself and I can't force him to want to work on it if he really does not want to.

I also realized that we don't have a clue on how to communicate correctly. Sure, we talk, but we don't really 'get' each other most of the time. So often when I try to tell him how I feel he gets mad and thinks I'm attacking him. I am not trying to attack him in any way, I am just trying to tell him how I feel and express my worries or fears. 

I am going to suggest we talk about why we haven't been getting along lately, and try to get his take on things, too. He may have a different way of looking at everything that I do and maybe we can compare notes, so to speak, and come up with a good strategy. I know this is going to take some time and work on both our parts but I want to win love back.

Hopefully if dinner goes well we can start to figure out how to spend more quality time together. I will tell him that I think we should have a date night every week. We get so caught up in the day to day managing of the house we forget we need to just feel connected to each other. I need to feel in love with him again and stop feeling like we are two people living in the same house. Maybe if we both agree to try to fix what is wrong, maybe we can find our happily ever after.

Then there is the subject of making love. The research said that if you and he have not made love for some time then one of you needs to seduce the other. On that note, I bought some sexy lingerie and some patchouli scented oil. After dinner I will go put on the lingerie, dab on some oil, light some candles, and put on some romantic music, too. Then I will lead him into the bedroom.

If we make these changes starting tonight and maybe, just maybe, we will be able to win love back.

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