How Can I Get My Husband To Love Me Again?

Sometimes a marriage can be over before it's over.  The two of you may still be together but the warmth, love and camaraderie is gone. At times like this a woman may ask the question: how can I get my husband to love me again?  Answering this question will be easier if the two of you are still together, but not impossible if you aren't.  You have to figure out what caused the marriage to cool and then try to reverse whatever that was. 

If the two of you recently broke up the thing that you feel most like doing is the one thing you absolutely should never do: call your husband (text your husband, IM your husband, etc. ) This is especially important if your husband broke up with you. If you start acting like some sort of crazy stalker lady, at worst you're going to end up with a restraining order against you and at best he'll only think of you as his 'sure thing, backup plan'.  Neither of those are terrific options. Give your husband space.

That doesn't mean that you have to go out and find another guy or hide under your bed.  While you are giving your husband time, take some time for you.  I'm sure that there are things that you wanted to do or liked to do that got put on the back burner while the two of you were together. Now is the time to remember those things and start doing them again.

Most men prefer a woman who is self sufficient and confidant.  Those are probably traits you had at first, it's time to re introduce yourself to those traits and start having fun and doing all the things you meant to do or used to do. Your husband will hear about it through the grapevine and he will be intrigued.  You might just find that your husband is calling you, by resorting to the woman you used to be you are reminding your husband of the woman he fell in love with.  Plus, by keeping yourself busy you aren't allowing yourself time to wallow and obsess.

The same principle can hold true if you and your husband are still together, but just not feeling the love.  Don't make a big issue out of it, just start doing some of the things that you were planning on doing but somehow got sidetracked when you and your husband got together.  Whatever it was, whether it was going back to school, learning to cook, taking a trip... this will remind both of you of the woman you used to be. That can help your husband remember the love he had for you and it can remind you of the person you used to be and make positive changes to be that woman again.

The question: how can I get my husband to love me again, can seem so sad and hopeless. But it doesn't have to be.  There are many things that you can do, many of which are much easier than you may have thought possible, that can help you and your husband rekindle the love the two of you had before.

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How to Make My Husband Love Me Again Before it’s Too Late!

If you’re asking yourself how to make my husband love me again, you have probably just about reached the end of your tether when it comes to your marriage.  It's tough to have to live within a bad marriage, but if you approach things in a healthy way, you may just be able to help re-establish the love and affection the two of you once had.

One thing to keep in mind is that even though you are the one asking the question your husband probably feels the distance between the two of you as well and hopefully will be just as willing as you are to make some changes. If he's not willing you are in for an almost impossible skirmish.

I am in a great marriage now, but the first time around... not so much. My ex husband was very challenging and not very giving. He was what I call an 'emotional cripple'. He was too insecure to be my friend and consider us to be equals (actually we weren't equals, I was much better than he was in virtually all facets of my personality, I just didn't understand it at the time so it was like open season. I know that sounds vain, but it's true).  He would demean me in front of his family and our kids. Thankfully, he finally left with some bimbo he met at a bowling alley. 

So, if your husband is an emotional cripple too, I would recommend you try counselling, though it won't work if he isn't willing to try, but it's a place to begin.

Another thing you need to be careful of is the propensity to over compensate when things start to fall apart. It's a common thing for women to be the healers and that can include a marriage that needs healing.  Women will often try too hard and just come off as needy and pathetic. This can create a vicious cycle where your husband pulls away, you cling to him and he pulls away even more. You get the idea. Don't try to over compensate when problems show up. Just try to calmly talk to him to figure out what's going on.

The other tact that many women take when things start to cool down in their marriage is that they try to protect themselves from the 'inevitable' pains that they think are coming and they pull away too. This can really create trouble.  The best thing for both of you to do is talk, honestly and openly. Discuss what is going on; what each of you is feeling and why you are pulling back.

It may be hard to see with all the silly macho posturing a lot of men do, but they really aren't that dissimilar from us, they just want to be loved and appreciated.  If your husband has started to pull back it could be that he just doesn't feel the warm fuzziness coming from you that he used to.  Maybe it's just that you've been besieged at work or with the kids, but if the two of you can't discuss this issue it can spiral.

The answer to the issue: how to make my husband love me again is; actually, he probably still does but you are both caught up in your own issues and just can't see it. It's time for the two of you to talk, maybe with a counsellor.  Once you do, you'll probably find that you're not that far apart after all.

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How To Make My Wife Love Me Again – The Feel Good Factor!

If you want to know "how to make my wife love me again", than the first thing you have to understand is that you can't 'make' somebody love you. However, there are things that you can do that can remind her of the man she used to love.  Numerous relationships fall into a routine, the longer the two of you have been together, the greater the risk of that happening.

The good news is that you can overcome that issue. One thing you should do is talk to your wife. Ask her if there is a problem.  Many times people will ask their wife what the problem is but if their wife tells them something they don't want to hear they get mad.  If that has happened with you and your wife before, don't be surprised if she just isn't in the mood for a fight so she'll just say there is nothing wrong.  If that's the case, you are going to have to take time to rebuild her trust in you. You will need to show her that you can listen without getting mad.

If she simply doesn't know what the problem is, and if she's just getting bored she may not even realize it herself, than what you need to do is go back in time. OK, not literally. But more than likely if you take the time to think about it, you've altered.  We change many times in our lives and the changes can be so subtle that we may not even realize we're doing it. Try to pinpoint the less than positive changes you've made.

A lot of times it can be something as simple as just not having the dreams we once used to have.  Depending on what your dreams were... that may be ok.  If you always dreamed of being a rock star, it might be best to get over that and find another passion. If your dream was to go to college that is much more attainable and maybe you shouldn't give up on that dream. Those dreams could very well be a part of what attracted your wife to you in the first place.

Another thing that you need to look at is how your attitude toward your wife has changed since the two of you got together?  For example, did you use to compliment your wife on the way she looked, or you made her a special meal once a week, etc.? Do you still do these things?  This type of behaviour, unfortunately, seems to be one of the first things to go in a long term relationship (and then people wonder why the romance has died).

To find out how to make my wife love me again might be a lot easier than you think. In a lot of cases all you have to do is spend some time figuring out the ways you've changed and then try to be more like the man you used to be, the man she fell in love with. This is often all you will need to do. It’s true what they say... “Those that laugh together stay together” if it’s stopped being fun occasionally, you need to make changes and bring the feel good factor back.

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