In a perfect world, marriages would be made up of two parties contributing their equal share. However, the reality is that most marriages are somewhat unbalanced; this is normal. However, problems can arise when we start thinking that the other person should be the one doing all of the romancing.
A lot of times (though not always) its women who think it's the responsibility of the man to make romantic gestures. There's nothing wrong with wanting your man to do romantic things, but you also have to be careful that you don't have unrealistic expectations. If you do, then you are setting yourself up to be let down. Also, it's only fair that you should do things for your husband as well, as a way of making sure things are balanced out. Here are a few suggestions to get you started.
Buy him things. You don't have to buy expensive gifts to show you care. Think about the things he likes and then buy a gift that's related to that in some way. Of course you need to know something about your husband for this to work. The more thought you put into it, the better.
Cook for him. There is an old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. No, this isn't in reference to some strange medical fact, but instead highlights how much men typically like having a good meal cooked for them. That isn't intended to sound sexist, as women enjoy good food, too, but you get the point. Cook your husband one of his favourite meals and sit down at the table to enjoy it together. He will enjoy his meal and appreciate the effort you put into it.
Spice things up. Now, this type of advice normally refers to the bedroom, and it's good to spice things up there once in a while, but anything you can do to get of a rut can work wonders in your marriage. While there may be some comfort in falling into a routine, it can get old before too long. So, let your husband know that you care by mixing things up a bit.
Massages feel so good! People are under a lot of stress in the modern world. This often makes itself known in the form of muscles tension. It's not always easy to relax with all of the pressures coming at us from different directions. Giving him a nice soothing massage after a hard day at work doesn't take long, but he will feel great...both because he's less tense and because he knows how much you care for him.
Doing these things for your husband is a great way to show him that you love him. Of course you would appreciate it if he returned the favour once in a while, too. But be careful! You should be doing these things because you want to, not because you are expecting something in return. Showing him you care will help to make your marriage stronger, and that's always a good thing.
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