Guaranteed Warning Signs of a Breakup - Be Forewarned

No one wants the rug pulled out from under them and be blindsided by an unexpected breakup. Breaking up is hard enough when you see it coming, if you haven't seen it coming it can be devastating. The fact of the matter is that more often than not there are signs of trouble. We miss the signs because they were well hidden or we just didn't want to see them.  If you want to make sure that that doesn't happen to you (again) here are some guaranteed warning signs of a breakup. 

When looking over this list you do have to keep in mind what is going on in your life.  Even though these things can be signs that your partner isn't really committed to the relationship and is ready to leave, they can also be signs of financial stress, or stress at work, depression, or some health issues.  While it's important to keep your eyes open for changes in our partners behaviour, you also have to be careful that if you see some of these signs that you don't jump to conclusions and start making accusations... that can create far more problems for you and could cause the very breakup you want to avoid:

Here is a list of some of the most common signs that there may be some problems in your relationship:

1. If your partner suddenly loses interest in being intimate with you, it could be a sign of trouble. As stated above, you should look at the situation as a whole and take other possible factors into consideration. But, if after looking for other alternatives and not being able to find any, you may have to seriously consider the possibility that there is something going on. Very often when a partner loses interest in sex it's because they are seeing someone else and getting their physical needs met elsewhere. 

2. If your partner doesn't seem that interested in spending time with you it could be a problem.  If you can't find any rational reason why they're suddenly so busy you have to consider the possibility that they are just avoiding you.  It could be because they know that the two of you need to talk and they are putting it off or it could be that they are spending time with someone else.  Either way, it's something that you should talk with them about.

3. Is your partner suddenly more secretive and protective of their phone or their computer?  If they suddenly carry their cell phone with them into the bathroom or take their laptop in the next room it's very likely an indication that they are talking with someone and they don't want you to know about it.

The fact of the matter is that any change in the way your partner acts towards you is a potential cause for concern.  Always keep an open mind and try to find other explanations for their behaviour but if you don't know why they are acting differently you should ask them.  Hopefully if there is something going on they will be big enough to tell you to your face.  Now that you know the guaranteed warning signs of a breakup you won't be blindsided by an unexpected breakup again.

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Proven Method Tricks to Get Him Back - Sneaky Tricks Don’t Work

If you're looking for proven method tricks to get him back, I may be able to help... or I may not. It really just depends on what you have in mind.  If you truly think that it was a mistake for you and your guy to breakup and that you could have a good relationship with a few changes and a little work, than the information in this article can help. If, on the other hand, you're looking for sneaky ways to trick him into coming back to you with no time or effort on your part, sorry, I can't help.

You see, using tricks to get someone back (the most common one is making them jealous) is a horrible strategy to use.  Even if they do come back to you, you will be building your relationship on lies instead of love and trust.  No relationship can last or be healthy if it is formed on trickery and games.  It's much better to take the high road, put in the time and love required and re build your relationship honestly. That is the only way you and your ex will have a real chance of staying together for the long term.

Another thing to keep in mind is that if there were any type of abuse in your relationship whether it was physical, sexual, emotional or verbal, you shouldn't even consider getting back with him until he has spent some serious time in counselling. If you are considering taking him back even though he hasn't changed, you are an abused woman and you should get counselling too.

It's not enough for him to 'promise' he'll get help, he has to actually sign up and go to meetings for several months before you should even consider a reconciliation.

The actual steps you will take to get your ex back are fairly simple but they will take time and effort.  It's best for the overall success of your reconciliation to not have any contact with your ex while you are going through these steps.  You need to allow him to miss you and he can't do that if you're still in contact with him. 

1. Take stock of the woman you are.  This is not about changing so he will want you back, this is about you taking this time to evaluate the type of person you are and deciding what character issues you have that could use some work. This is all about you. We all have personality traits that aren't the best, this is what you need to focus on and fix.  Whether you and your ex get back together or not, you will have other relationships and it's always best to take the best version of you into any new relationship.

2. Once you've spent time working on your flaws, you need to look at what the problems in the relationship were, and try to find solutions.  It's important to remember, that you can't fix all the problems in your relationship all on your own, you can only fix your own problems. For relationship problems you and your ex will have to be willing to work together.

You and your ex can get back together, but if you want it to last you'll base your relationship on honesty and love and to do that you can use these proven method tricks to get him back, just put emphasis on the method and stay away from the tricks.

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How To Mend a Broken Heart – Win Them Back!

The best way to mend a broken heart is to win back the person that broke it. Now there isn’t a check list or standard formula for doing this and in fact you can do all the right things and still not win them back. But if you try… at least in your heart you will know that you did all you could to make it work.

There are methods and strategies to getting your ex back and mending your broken heart. They don’t work 100% of the time and they don’t work in all situations but at the very least you will end up in a good relationship with your ex even if you don’t completely win them back.

These processes will make your relationship better and improve your self-esteem. You have nothing to lose from trying at best you will win their heart back and at worst you will regain a friend and feel so much better about yourself and go a long way towards mending your broken heart.

At the end of this your ex will have a better understanding of what you are all about and if done properly a renewed respect for you. You basically need to make them feel good again, when we meet someone we love the way they make us feel and that’s what attracts us to them. This is why sometimes you see loving couples and wonder how they came to be together as they look a weird combo and you wouldn’t ever put them together. It’s simply because they make each other feel great.

First of all forget about the past and deal with the here and now, we can’t change the past we can only influence the future. What is the best way to sort out your computer when it’s playing up? Restart… when you press that button all settings go back to the default settings and that’s what your relationship needs to do. Start over and be what you used to be. If you joked a lot why don’t you now? If you were happy go lucky when you met, why aren’t you now? Find that person they fell in love with again.

Politeness and respect: When we first meet we are courteous and respectful and that always makes people feel good. This is why salesmen are trained to be polite and courteous at all times. It makes you feel good when someone is nice to you. This is the biggest mistake people make in relationships. Why should that change just because you have been together for a while? Be nice! The chances are your ex fell in love with you because you were kind hearted. So be that person again.

Be patient, this is going to take time. Let them cool off and settle into a routine before contacting them. They won’t calm down until they find their new comfort zone. People rarely jump straight into a new relationship so don’t panic, you should have time to regroup and plan your strategy. If you keep pestering them they will only become angrier and this will make the split permanent.

If you do see them, let them know that you still care and if they need anything or need help with anything that you are there if they need you without strings. Sometimes allowing your ex space can help remind them of how much they relied on you and consequently miss you. This is a slow process I am afraid and these things may not seem much but they are vital to your success and mending your broken heart and winning your ex back.

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