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Monday, 5 December 2011

Giving Gifts To Keep The Marriage Alive

When you are in love you are living on cloud nine and enjoying every minute of it.  To keep that love alive it can be nice to give your husband a gift every now and then.  When a relationship is reasonably new it is sometimes difficult to think of gift ideas as you might not know him well enough yet to know just what he likes.  There are so many different types of gifts to choose from but how do you know which type your husband will enjoy?
There are two categories of gifts that you can buy for your husband.  Firstly you can buy him something that he would like to have and the second category is gifts that he would find useful.  Within both of these categories you are sure to find something that he would love, whether it is something to suit his needs or his wants.  You should try to choose a gift that will also suit his personality.
When choosing a gift for your husband you need to change your way of thinking and don't buy a gift that suits your tastes.  Your taste of gift might not match his taste so you need to remember that you are buying for him and need to choose a gift that will suit his tastes, even if it is something that you don't particularly like all that much. 
One tip for choosing a gift is to consider his interests.  It is much easier to buy a gift if you know his interests as you can then shop for something along those lines.  For example, if he is interested in football you could buy him some football gear or even a book or DVD about football.  If he is a businessman and is passionate about his business, then perhaps you can buy him something for the office.
If your husband loves the outdoors and is very adventurous then you can maybe buy him some equipment to use for his adventures or perhaps even a ticket for an adventure like hot air ballooning.  It really makes it much easier to buy for your husband if you know what he likes to do or what he is passionate about.
If you know his interests but are still unsure about what to buy him, then you can do a search on the internet for his interests and you will find many gift ideas and suggestions.  If you don't really know what his interests are then you can always search the internet for the general question 'gift ideas and suggestions for my husband' and you will get some good results.  It certainly does make it easier though if you have some idea of what he likes or what he needs.  If you buy a gift that is completely unrelated to his interests, needs or personality then that may reflect on how much attention you have shown him.
If you don't know his interests or passions then think about his personality as a person’s personality can also give you lots of ideas for gifts.  If you are creative you may even consider making him something which will have sentimental value when he knows that you put the effort into making it.
If you aren't creative, there are places where you can have gifts made.  It could be something as simple as having his name engraved on a pen if he is a business man, or a football shirt with his favourite player’s number put on the back.  Try to combine your creativity with his personality and interests and you have a winning combination.
The main aim of giving your husband a gift is to express your love and affection toward him so it really doesn't need to be anything expensive or too outgoing, something simple is often the best.
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Romantic Ideas for Your Husband

All new romances start off very amorous and exciting, but after a while the romance fizzles a little and you can soon find yourself wondering where the romance went.  If you would like to keep your love life alive then start thinking about some amorous ideas for your husband.  Although it is nice if your husband is the amorous one, but if you are amorous toward him you will find that he will return the favour and be more amorous with you.  You can plan romantic moments or you can be amorous on the spur of the moment and it is often these spontaneous passionate moments that have maximum effect.
When thinking of something romantic try to think outside the box and be a little creative.  If you open up your mind to new ideas you are sure to come up with many exciting, amorous ideas.  Your husband will love any little amorous gestures that you come up with.
Continuing romance in your life will help your marriage to stay strong and your love life to remain alive and exciting.  Your husband will enjoy being romanced and will love you or making the effort to shower him with romance.  I'm sure he will soon be showering you with romance and the candle you have for each other will continue to burn brightly.
When you are bringing romance into a marriage it needs to be done with love, passion and sincerity.  If you see being amorous as a chore then it just won't have the same effect as if you are amorous with passion.  You don't have to plan a big three course candle lit meal to be romantic; often it is simple little gestures that bring the most romance to a marriage.
Even if you feel that your husband is romantic enough so you don't need to worry about being amorous, this isn't true.  You should also show romance to him and not leave it all up to him.  He will love to receive romantic gestures and surprises from you and with you doing this he will likely continue to shower you with romantic gestures.  When both parties in a marriage participate in romance it will keep the romance in the marriage alive.  If you want to encourage your husband to be more amorous here are some steps that might help:
1. Let your husband know how you feel and that you would like to see some romance from him.  Ask him how he really feels about you and then let him know that you would like to hear him tell you from time to time.  He can be amorous just by telling you how much he loves you and expressing his feelings.  Tell him that you know he loves you but you still like to hear it from him.
2. Encourage your husband to express his feelings in the presence of others as this truly is a romantic gesture that shows you that he truly loves you and is not ashamed of it.
3. Your husband should ask you how your day went or if you enjoyed your meal.  Little questions like these that show he is interested in your feelings and comfort are very amorous and make you feel special.
4. Your husband should listen when you have any problems that you want to talk about and he should offer advice and help you through any rough times.  This shows that he is concerned about you and your feelings and will always be there for you when you need him.
5. Your husband should be respectful of your likes and dislikes and work around them to some degree.  He should be well-dressed and well-mannered to keep you happy and keep your romance alive.
6. You will want to receive lots of hugs and affection from your husband so that you feel loved.
7. He should offer you comforting words at times when you need to hear them.  He can't solve all your problems for you but he should be there to comfort you when required.
Not all men are romantic at heart and some need a little encouragement to be amorous.  You will find that if you do these things to him he will likely reciprocate and do them back to you.  When you both treat each other with affection and romance you will continue to have a happy and healthy marriage for a long, long time.
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How To Spice Up Your Marriage – Make Him Smile!

There are many ways that you can spice up your marriage and one great way is by using sweet comments that will make him smile.  Little romantic quotes will go a long way to spice up your love life and you will soon find your husband becoming more romantic toward you too.
There doesn't need to be a specific time of day to use sweet talk, you can tell your husband sweet things at any time or any place.  In fact, it doesn't always need to be said, but you can also write a note with a sweet quote and leave it somewhere where he will find it when you are not there. 
By using sweet quotes in your relationship you can help to relieve any nervousness or anxiety about a new relationship.  If you feel nervous saying sweet things, then you shouldn't because it will actually relieve your nervousness in the long term and also his.
When trying to think of sweet things to say to your husband you should first consider your feelings toward him.  Grab a piece of paper and a pen and write down your feelings and emotions that you have when you think of him or when you are with him.  Your heart will tell you how you feel and these are the things he wants to know so use your own feelings to come up with some sweet comments to give him. 
Not many men will admit that they want you to say such sweet things to them, but they do enjoy hearing them and they will bring a smile to his face and his love for you will grow.
Here are a few examples of little sweet comments that you can say to your husband:
v  My life is so much better since I met you.
v  My world is empty when you aren't with me.
v  You are the sunshine of my life.
v  It's been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don't believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again.
v  Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over.
v  Thank you for your sweet, sweet love. You'll never truly know just how happy that you make me and how much I love you.
v  Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be.
v  If I know what love is, it is because of you.
v  You are my endless love.
v  Before I met you I never knew what it was like; to look at someone and smile for no reason.
v  You had me at hello.
v  You make me melt like hot fudge on a sundae.
v  There must be something wrong with my eyes; I can't take them off you.
v  You must be from out of space because I can see the stars in your eyes.
v  Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?
v  I dropped a tear in the ocean, the day I find it is the day I'll stop loving you.
v  My heart smiled when you kissed my lips. What a sweet surprise.
v  You are the prince in my fairytale life.
v  You are so sweet to me; you take the place of icing on my cake.
v  Baby you are the whip cream on my hot fudge sundae.
v  You are the olive in my martini.
These are just some examples to help you get started; some are corny but you can choose what suits your relationship and sense of humour, often some quote will just come to you when you least expect it and these are often the best.  Otherwise you can search the internet to find many more quotes that you can use.  Whenever you want to get your husband in a romantic mood, and then try using some of these sweet quotes and you will soon have him relaxed and full of romance.
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