The science of relationship psychology can be used to improve your relationship, at its core it’s simply a way to learn how to recognize and learn to change the destructive things you do in a relationship. This could be something as simple as always falling for the wrong person or just being so insecure that you slowly tear your marriage apart.
Learning to understand each other and actually listening to what your partner has to say is a vital skill that you must learn if you want to master relationship psychology and create peace in your marriage.
It's no revelation that men and woman communicate differently, too. We all know that men tend to like to take action and women are more likely to want to talk about the state of affairs. That in a nutshell is the big reason why men and women have so many difficulties in marriages; they just need to learn how to communicate more successfully with each other.
When it comes to using relationship psychology to help improve your marriage, talk to your spouse about what they think is the perfect marriage and what they expect this marriage will be like. They may have an all together different idea than you do about the issue. Say, for example, that your husband grew up in a home where his father dominated everything then he may feel he has that right in his own marriage. And if you grew up in a family that was more democratic than that and everyone was allowed to be a part of any decisions that were made, then there will be problems in your marriage.
Understanding relationship psychology and getting things out in the open and learning to deal with them right from the beginning will enable the two of you to avoid misunderstandings and the hurt they bring because you will understand where the other is coming from.
If you think you have met your perfect match, your soul mate, the love of your life that does not mean that the whole thing will always be sunshine and roses. I think a lot of people who think they have met 'the one' mistakenly assume that they will always get along and the marriage will always be perfect and that they won't have to work at it. Life is not a fairy tale and marriages like that only happen in fairy tales and Hollywood.
Having a healthy marriage does not just happen, it takes some effort on both your parts. So teach yourselves right from the beginning and then put what you learn into action, simple!
If you really want to start out on the right foot, get some premarital counselling. There are counsellors who specialize in premarital counselling or the minister of your church probably offers it as well. Use this time to build on the good things about your marriage and nip the problem areas in the bud. The counsellor can teach you both how to communicate successfully and give you both insight into how your spouse thinks and behaves in certain situations.
Relationship psychology can be an effective tool to use to build a healthy marriage between you and the love of your life.
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