Will My Husband Ever Love Me Again

Will my husband ever love me again? Many lonely wives and ex-wives ask themselves this question at some point in or after their marriage. Whether you're just growing apart, in the process of breaking up, or have already done so, there are ways that you can restore your lost love.

Perhaps even more common of a question is "will my husband ever love me again in the way that he used to?" Before we talk about the things that have helped other women get their husband's love back and may help you get yours too, let's discuss the things that you may be doing that will NOT win back his feelings for you. Remember to keep this truth in mind: men are more attracted to women that make them feel confident, funny, and interesting than they are to women that make them feel mad, fearful, or jealous. The kind of attention you are trying to elicit from your husband is on the positive side of the spectrum. Negative attention will most likely, only end up in him pushing you further away.

Sort of along those same lines, you want to create a positive image of yourself as well. You don't want to appear needy, clingy, desperate, high-maintenance, or bossy. While this type of behaviour will definitely get some sort of reaction from your husband, it might not be the reaction that is going to bring you closer together in the long-run.

What you want to do is create the right environment so that he can fall back in love with you, if in fact he really has fallen out of love, or just to remind him of how much he loves you if that's what's needed. In order to do this, you may need to revisit why he fell in love with you in the first place. Part of this will surely be your physical appearance.

If you've let that go over the years due to a variety of reasons, start working on it again. Make sure you are eating the right foods, exercising a little bit when possible (this is also extremely good for reducing stress), and getting enough sleep. Is one reason that he fell in love with you your sense of humour? Can you still laugh at things or have you lost a little bit of this quality throughout the years? Or maybe you've changed quite a bit and your husband doesn't recognize this person. In this case, you need to also evaluate the positive sides to your change and focus on those. Hopefully your shift has not only been towards more negative characteristics.

There's no reason that you cannot take a look at your situation from an objective point of view and analyze what is going on. The change in your husband (and in yourself) has happened over time. It didn't just happen overnight. You already know what your husband loves (or loved) about you. Make sure that you are showing him that on a regular basis if it is still a part of you. This is the first step in the answer to your question of "Will my husband ever love me again?"