"I want my husband to love me again" is one of the most commonly echoed sentiments when it comes to relationship mending. It's becoming more and more common that women are feeling lonely and lost in what they feel are loveless marriages. But they do not want to give up even if it appears that their husband already has. The good news is that there are numerous ways to fix your marriage, or any long-term relationship, and bring back that love you once shared.
Mending a marriage can be complex and there are many strategies that you can take to go about this. The results will depend on your individual circumstances and state of affairs, but there are some questions you need to ask yourself. First of all, you clearly feel that your husband doesn't love you any longer or you wouldn't be stating "I want my husband to love me again." But has he told you this? Remember that men and women think and feel differently. There could be a big difference between the way he really feels and what you think he feels. If he has not left you and he hasn't admitted to not having feelings for you any longer, then he probably does still love you, but there are some other things getting in the way that are baffling him.
One very common reason that husbands seem to stop displaying love to their wives is because the wife shifts her attention from him to the children. This is normal of course and you should put your children as top priority. But if you've been paying very little to no attention to your husband, he may start to feel unappreciated and he could even feel a little bitterness toward the children. While you would hope that is not the case, it is not unusual, especially if the situation has become a permanent mother-tending-to-her-kids-all-the-time one. In early childhood, this is more understandable, but as children grow up, some of your interest should shift back over to your husband.
If your husband treats you with no appreciation or value, first take a look at how you are treating him. Whether he started this behaviour or you did, you need to be the one to change it. Start complimenting him for the things he does do and avoid badgering him for the things he doesn't. If all goes well, he will start to mirror your actions so just give it time. In the meantime, instead of focusing on him all the time (for better or for worse), try focusing on yourself. Make sure you are taking care of yourself and not just the kids and your husband. The better you feel about yourself, the more attractive you will be to others, including your husband.
Your wish of "I want my husband to love me again" can be approved if you just take this guidance into consideration.
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