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Tuesday 19 July 2011

Getting Back Together With An Ex - Is It Possible?

Getting back together with an ex, is it achievable, and if so how? First things first, yes it's achievable to get back together with your ex after a breakup but the exact method and timing will depend on several factors. For one thing, why did the two of you break up? Did you run off or did they? How long have you been broken up for? What have you said and done before, during and after the breakup? It's hard to give a one size fits all answer to that question but there are some familiar things that will work for most people.
First of all when getting back together with an ex, keep in mind, it takes two, no one person is totally accountable for everything that went wrong in the relationship, though that doesn't mean it's 50/50 either. Sometimes one person is more accountable for the trouble than the other.  Figure out where you are in all that. How much went wrong that you are directly to blame for? Come on, be honest. It may not be much fun to face up to the things you've done but if you really want your ex back it's the only way to do it. After all, why would they even consider getting back with you if you haven't altered at all?
Once you've figured out how you screwed up... the next step is to fix it. Nothing fancy, just figure out what areas you can use some improvement in and get better. This is a real win/ win situation. No matter what happens with your ex, you'll be a better person for the rest of your life. Not a bad deal all in all. Getting back together with an ex will require you to do this step.
Once you've faced things, made changes and are ready to show off what a great person you are, it's time to find your ex and let them see the all new you.  Again, this step will depend on how everything ended. Assuming there weren't too many sparks, and hopefully no restraining orders, you might want to nonchalantly recommend to your ex that the two of you get together.
Hopefully they'll accept, if not you may need to try to spend some time with mutual friends and let them see the new you. More often than not, word will get back to your ex about how much you've changed. It won't hurt to let your friends know that you want to get back with your ex... Your ex will probably hear about it through the grapevine.
When working towards getting back together with an ex, don’t meet with them with the idea of talking them into taking you back. Just meet with them and let them get to know you, the new you. Show them who you've become, talk is cheap, let your ex see for them self the changes you've made. That is the best way to convince them that the two of you have a chance of making things work this time around.
So, with some luck, patience and a lot of love you may just find that getting back together with an ex is possible and good for both of you.
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