Fastest Tips to Get Back Together

For anyone who is struggling with the pain of a failed relationship and who wants to get their ex back, you may be looking for the fastest tips to get back together.  The problem is that there is no fast way to reconcile with your ex.  The most effective method (which I'll go over in this article) won't happen overnight.  It will take time, patience, commitment, love and forgiveness if you want to get back with your ex, and most importantly, make it work this time.

If you have what it takes and you are willing to put in the time, here are the steps that can help you get your ex back in your arms. The really good part: not only can you get your ex back but your relationship can be better than it ever was before... if you follow these steps:

1. Don't call your ex (this also means no texting, emails, or contact of any kind).  This is one of the hardest things to do because it's easy to convince yourself that if you're out of contact with them for too long that they will forget about you and find someone else.  The truth is that if they still have feelings for you (and if they don't you won't be able to get back with them anyway) they won't fall for someone else so soon. It is possible they might date and you have to be ok with that, but if they still love you they won't fall in love with someone else.

By giving them time alone you are giving them time to miss you and remember how great it was to be with you.  Even if they are dating during this time, they are only comparing everyone they see with you, and they won't like what they see.  Give them space; it can work in your favour.

2. While you are following step 1, you will also be spending time becoming a better person.  You will need to take a cold hard look at the person you are and what you were like during your relationship with your ex.  Focus in on the things that you did that you shouldn't have done.  For example, did you make fun of your ex in any way?  Did you mock them or put them down instead of loving them and trying to build them up?  Were you too quick to anger when they tried to talk to you about how they were feeling?  Whatever your issues were, now is the time to work on them and improve the person you are.  By completing this step you are assuring yourself that no matter what happens with your ex, you will be bringing much less baggage with you into your next relationship.

3. After you've completed these steps you should contact your ex and casually ask them if they'd like to get together.  Don't say anything about getting back together, the point is to spend time with them so that they can remember the fun the two of you used to have and so they can see the positive changes you've been making since the two of you have been apart.  At this stage it's common for the ex to be so impressed by the changes they see that they are the one who suggests getting back together.

I won't lie to you and tell you that these are the fastest tips to get back together, but they are the most effective for not only getting back together but for insuring that your relationship is strong and will last.

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