How Can I Get Him To Love Me Again

If you've been asking yourself, "How can I get him to love me again?” you'll be happy to know that it can be done and you are by no means the only person who has ever asked themselves this question. Luckily, the success stories of getting back together with their lost ones can share how they did it with you; so that you can get your guy back too.

The first thing that you need to do to get your man back is to get yourself back. If you are at the point of asking yourself "How can I get him to love me again," chances are you've also been asking him repeatedly, maybe even begging and hounding him. If that's you… that has to stop.

Your first step is to stop focusing on him and start focusing on yourself. Bring out your better self, not the begging, pleading and pathetic person you've become because of your troubles. In order to do this, you first need to promise yourself that you will distance yourself from your guy. If at all possible, you want no contact with him. If that's impossible because you work with him or you have children together that require you to come into contact, then just keep your contact minimal. This doesn't mean that you need to be cold or mean. If fact, it's just the opposite: smile and say hello and then just move onto what you plan for the day.

This is sort of like an emotional detoxify period for you. You've made the mental and, if possible, physical break from your ex. Now it is time to get back to the self-confident, lovable, attractive person that he fell in love with in the first place. This means taking care of yourself by eating right, not drinking too much alcohol, exercising, getting engaged in other activities, going out with friends and family, even throwing yourself into your work if that's what you love.

Force yourself to do these things. You may not feel like it at first, but as you start to look and feel better about yourself, you will see that you actually look forward to doing these things. And not only will you feel better about yourself, you will become more attractive to everyone else, including the guy you want back. Take your time with this step.

There is no definitive ending point here. It could take weeks, or it could take months. Dedicate the necessary time and don't rush it. You'll know when it's right to get back in touch with your ex. You will feel confident and sure of yourself. Ask him out for a coffee and take it from there. Don't bring up anything about your relationship in your first meeting and make sure that you are the one to end the time together by saying that you have another appointment or something like that. Now you are on the way to answering your own question of "how can I get him to love me again?"